Desperate Dependency: Weakness or Wisdom

Desperate Dependency: Weakness or Wisdom

All relational connections contain a degree of dependency. Too much dependency can cause relational dysfunction, and too little can lead to disconnection and isolation. This article explores how dependency relates to relational health and outlines how various levels...
Who Decides What’s Normal?

Who Decides What’s Normal?

There seems to be an ongoing effort in this country to pathologize just about every reaction, response, distress, or experience to which a human being can be exposed. If I hadn’t read it myself, I would have thought the article I recently reviewed about the...
For the Sake of the Children

For the Sake of the Children

I have a bias. As a therapist, I’m not supposed to have biases. But I do, and I will as long as any child anywhere is being abused, neglected, or exposed to harmful, life-altering experiences and situations. For the sake of the children, I will always strive to...
Healing the Unbearable Pain of Trauma

Healing the Unbearable Pain of Trauma

There are times in life when words fail us.  This can be especially true for people who have experienced some type of traumatic event. The loss of a loved one, an unexpected accident, a devastating diagnosis, or inflicted harm can render even the most resilient person...